In this
blog I am to reflect the tutorial videos on the course website. In one of the
videos, Per Erchevelli talks about the non-verbal communication in service
encounters. Non-verbal interaction is a major part of communication. According
to researcher Albert Mehrabian, only 7 % of our communication is the actual
words we speak. 38% is the tone of our voice, and 55% is body language. (https://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kroppsspråk)
Erchevelli describes using non verbal communication as tools in our
toolbox, some small, some bigger. He mentions gestures, posture, touching
behaviour, facial expressions, eye behaviour and vocal behaviour. These tools
of non verbal communication have 3 functions, according to Erchevelli: it adds
information to what is already expressed, it gives a new direction to the conversation,
and it reinforces a specific communicative content.
In my personal opinion, non
verbal communication is a powerful tool and therefore so often misunderstood.
The interpretation of the non verbal communication is depending on the
receiver. Words are easier to communicate without misunderstanding, but it is
easy to misunderstand both gestures, expressions and tone of voice.
My latest, unfortunate encounter with this misinterpretation of non verbal
communications was just two days ago, when I was called in to mediate between
two colleagues. One of the colleagues is convinced that the other one hates
her. She based this conviction on the colleague’s angry faces, the way he gestures
in an aggressive way, he’s laughing at her, and must be saying bad things about
her behind her back. The other one has no clue of what she’s talking about. The
thing is, these two colleagues speak different native languages. So for
starters, when the words are misunderstood, the non verbal communication emphasizes
this misunderstanding. Any thoughts of how you would solve this situation?
These kinds of conflicts make me even more interested in how non verbal
communication works. This time I didn’t write so much about the customer interaction,
but will write more about that in the next blog, and in my home assignment.
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